Last weekend, in addition to celebrating Thanksgiving with the most gratitude I’ve ever felt in my lifetime, I also celebrated my upcoming wedding at my bridal shower brunch. It was a beautiful day and the outpouring of love and support from family and friends that shared the day with me, made it the most happy day of my year so far.
The sun was shining, the food was delicious (Thanks to Paul & Anita at The Magnolia Event Boutique), my bridal party ladies were beautiful, the decor was exactly how I envisioned it (Lots of Love to Suzanne at Interiors by Suzart) and if I could bottle up the peace in my heart that I felt on that day, I would. It was yet one more milestone reached on my way down the aisle to marrying my Earth Angel, Mark, and my goodness, it was perfection.
But above all the beautiful, tangible things that made the day so splendid, it was the beauty & sincerity in the words spoken by my mother to me that captured my heart like nothing else could. She was so eloquent as she addressed a room full of women. And so, today, instead of sharing my own words with you, I’d like to share the words of my mother:
“…As a little girl, Rosie was always happy and finding good in all creatures. Her kindness and gentleness was like honey to the Bees, attracting everyone to her. Rosie is the sunshine to all that know her and the most beautiful gift and blessing I have ever been given. Rosie, you have always kept our home full of love, laughter and parties. You have literally been a party planner your whole life. I remember when you were in grade 3 and showed up on our doorstep with your entire class for a Hot Chocolate party. How could a little girl convince her teacher to take the whole class of 30 students to our home for hot chocolate? Only someone as special as you.
As a parent, we always try to do our best to protect our children. We will do whatever it takes to make sure they are safe. Rosie – throughout this year, you have protected me. You consoled me in some of our most difficult days and have been the ray of sunshine that keeps our family going.
Every mother hopes that her child finds love. But, when you’re a mother to a daughter you hope for more than just that. You hope that she finds a man who will lift her up, who will protect her heart. A man who will stand by her and support her dreams. A man who will be her crutch when she needs him to be, and be her wings when she wants him to be. Rosie has found that man in Mark. She found in him, a soulmate, someone who loves her for all the wonderful things about her and whose heart is just as big and generous and loving as hers. Mark very easily became a part of our family and has proven over and again that his love for Rosie goes beyond measure. My hope for my daughter came true and for this I am forever grateful.
Rosie – I am incredibly lucky and blessed to have you not only as my daughter, but as my best friend. When you were a little girl, I held your hand. Now, that you are grown, I will always hold on to your heart. You are my strength and inspiration. You, my beautiful girl, are my Rosie Strong. I love you.”
My goodness, I’m so blessed to have this kind of love in my life! If you’re lucky enough to have a mother who calms your fears, who gives you strength, who will sacrifice anything and everything for you…Show her some gratitude, give her a kiss, a hug. Let her know in whatever way you choose that you value and appreciate her. Don’t wait for mother’s day, don’t wait for tomorrow.
In my mother’s eyes, I am so much stronger and better, so much more beautiful than I have ever seen myself to be. My body is ravaged with nasty post surgical scars that she doesn’t even see! To her, I am as lovely as I was when I was a child. She looks through the nasty scars I wear on my body and she heals the scars that wear on my mind.
It’s amazing how quickly scars can fade and how perfect one can feel, when a child sees herself through her mother’s eyes.